Frequently Asked Questions

Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where a neutral third party—the mediator—helps disputing parties communicate and reach their own agreement. Unlike court litigation, where a judge makes decisions for you, mediation keeps you in control of the outcome. It is typically faster, less expensive, and less adversarial than going to court, and it helps preserve relationships that might be damaged by courtroom battles.

While you are not required to have an attorney, it is strongly recommended that each party consult with their own lawyer. The mediator is neutral and cannot give legal advice to either side. Your attorney can advise you on your rights, review the mediation agreement before you sign, and ensure the final document protects your interests.

The duration depends on the complexity of your case. Simple disputes may resolve in a single session of 2–4 hours. More complex family law matters involving custody, property division, and financial issues may require multiple sessions over several weeks. Even in complex cases, mediation typically resolves far faster than traditional litigation, which can take many months or even years.

Yes. Under Michigan law, mediation communications are confidential and generally cannot be disclosed in court proceedings. This encourages open, honest dialogue and helps parties speak freely about their interests and concerns without fear that their words will be used against them later.

Mediation is voluntary, and either party can end the process at any time. If you are unable to reach a full agreement, you still retain all your rights to pursue the matter in court. Often, even partial agreements in mediation narrow the issues that need to be litigated, saving time and money.

Once both parties sign a written mediation agreement, it becomes a legally enforceable contract. In family law cases, the agreement can be submitted to the court and incorporated into a court order, giving it the full force of law. This is why it is important to have your own attorney review the agreement before signing.

Mediation may not be appropriate in every case involving domestic violence. However, with proper safeguards—such as shuttle mediation (where parties are in separate rooms), having attorneys or support persons present, and safety planning—it can sometimes be an option. This is carefully evaluated during the initial consultation to ensure the safety and wellbeing of all parties.

Empowered Mediation serves clients throughout Arizona and Michigan. In Arizona, John serves the entire state, including Phoenix, Scottsdale, Tucson, and Mesa—with both in-person and remote sessions. In Michigan, John is a certified mediator serving Northwest Michigan counties including Benzie, Grand Traverse, Leelanau, Manistee, and Wexford, as well as statewide via secure video conference.